It may be a cliche, but one of things that really appeals to men is a woman who is sexually liberated in the bedroom – and whilst I don’t advocate the old saying about be a whore in the bedroom and Madonna outside it, the certainly something in this that women who are fully into their sexual energy can truly appreciate.

Being sexual in bed is gratifying not only for the sexual partner – because nothing turns a man on more than an excited and turned on woman – it is also gratifying for the woman because she can enter fully into her femininity and sexuality, and gain the maximum amount of pleasure that may be possible or achievable during every act of sexual liaison.

So although being alone by definition will probably mean being sexually isolated, it’s well worth making the effort to increase sexual skills as well as social skills when you’re making an effort to reintegrate into society and overcome anxiety about socializing.

Indeed, this is a two-way thing, because becoming sexually more confident can certainly increase your social confidence as well.

Becoming regularly orgasmic, and freely sexual are both growth experiences on every level for the majority of women – they speak of exploration of the soul, exploration of the personality and reaching into the depths of the femininity to draw out everything that is available, and everything that can make life more enjoyable.

Any good relationship between two people depends on good sex – intimacy alone is not enough, and sexuality alone is certainly not enough, but combined together these two attributes of the human relationship can transform the enjoyment and pleasure that people get from sex enormously.

Besides which, no matter how socially inhibited you may be, if you’re good in bed, you will always be popular with the boys!

Now, I’m not suggesting that this is a reason for women to become sexual in a way that goes against their basic values in nature, which will have principles and values which we must uphold to maintain a sense of integrity with ourselves.

What however I am suggesting is that it’s well worthwhile reaching into yourself and exploring to the maximum possible extent your sexuality and the pleasure that you can get from – well, from not just being orgasmic, but from every sexual technique that is available to you.

In this context, one of the more unusual sexual techniques which you might wish to explore is female ejaculation. Now if those words alone send a shudder through you, or sense of shame grips you, then you clearly have some inhibitions which you might need to explore and shed before you can fully enter into the joy and excitement of this extraordinary sexual technique. From the Telegraph:

The elusive G-spot does not exist, according to a new study.

So far, so typical. It seems we can’t go a few months without researchers offering a new opinion on the supposed holy grail of the female orgasm. One minute it exists, the next it doesn’t.

But, now it turns out, this isn’t the only think we might have to rethink.

According to researchers, the vaginal orgasm and clitoral orgasm don’t exist either.

This may come as a surprise to any woman who thought she had experienced an orgasm in this way. But a report published in the Journal of Clinical Anatomy explains that, actually, there’s only one type of orgasm a woman can have and that should just be known generally as the “female orgasm.”

The authors of the study explain that we have interpreted the female anatomy incorrectly. They say that the “internal/inner clitoris does not exist: the entire clitoris is an external organ.”

The “vaginal orgasm”, which some women report experiencing from penetrative sex, is “always caused by the surrounding erectile organs” – dubbed the “female penis.”

The study aims to help women understand the certainties of the female orgasm and clarifies whether the terms we use in everyday life have any scientific basis.

Now having said all of that, you may not believe the female ejaculation is a reality, but this fact of the matter is there is plenty of evidence to suggest that both marginal orgasm, G spot stimulation and female squirting are extremely real phenomena which can increase sexual pleasure for both men and women alike. so, in short,m if you want to know how to make a woman squirt, just go ahead and play with her G spot (with her consent, of course).

Laci Green

From The Independent

Yet the scientific community remains divided, some questioning the very existence of the G-spot while others the vast differences in the amount of fluid expressed by women. Some women report very little liquid (2-4mL) resembling watered-down milk, while others express far greater volume. This has led some researchers to maintain that squirting is actually an involuntary emission of urine, or hyper lubrication. A recent study published out of Le Chesnay, France conducted by Samuel Salama and his colleagues sought to lay these questions to rest by combining ultra-sound imaging with chemical analysis of higher volume female ejaculate.

The researchers recruited seven women who self-reported that they squirted the equivalent to a glass of water during orgasm, enough to noticeably wet the bed-sheets. The women provided a urine sample, and then underwent an ultrasound that confirmed that their bladders were indeed empty. The women then, either with the help of their partner or alone, began sexual stimulation and once sufficiently aroused underwent a second ultrasound. At this point, the women returned to the task at hand until they achieved orgasm and ejaculation. A sample of the ejaculate was collected and the final ultrasound performed.